the connected
kid toolkit
A powerhouse of parenting tools created to help you cultivate a deep and lasting connection with both your child and yourself.
Here’s what you get:
1. 50 empowering conversation cards
The Toolkit equips you with 50 physical conversation cards that will give you the *exact* things to say to create more harmony and connection with your child.
→ The cards, activities, and workbook are divided into six overarching categories: Unconditional Love; Being Seen and Heard; Mistakes & Apologies; Self-Trust; Emotional Wellness; Bodily Autonomy & Positivity.
→ The front of each card contains a phrase or affirmation that you can share with your child, while the back includes a supplemental script to unpack the topic in a deeper way.
2. transformational reparenting workbook
You’ll receive immediate access to my exclusive digital Reparenting Workbook, which will be a clear framework for how to reparent your inner child and learn to unconditionally love yourself.
→ This 100-page workbook is designed to give parents a soft landing place to connect with Younger You and unpack your feelings or epiphanies that may have arisen from using the Connected Kid cards.
3. engaging Therapist-backed activities
The toolkit also includes exclusive access to dozens of activities that help bring these conversations to life in fun and tangible ways.
→ These activities – tried and tested by parents worldwide – equip you with genuinely enjoyable ways that reinforce the affirmations from the cards.
Six Conversation Categories
What parents are saying:
The Connected Kid Toolkit is a transformative collection of tools that will help you to deepen the connection with your child and your inner child. The result? More peace, cooperation, and joy within your family. Guaranteed.
Trusted by families worldwide
Hi! I’m Shelly Robinson, mom of two amazing kiddos, a certified conscious parent coach, and the founder of Raising Yourself.
if you’re a parent and you want to…
- Experience more peace, fun, and harmony in your home;
- Enjoy deeper conversations with your kids about important topics;
- Stay calm in the face of being triggered by your children;
- Increase cooperation with your kids without using threats and punishment;
- Break unhealthy cycles so your kids can inherit a new generational template…
Then sit back and rest a little easier, friend. I created the Connected Kid Toolkit exactly for parents just like YOU.
Take a Look Inside!
the connected kid toolkit is rooted in relationships
The relationship we have with ourselves, our kids, and our inner kids. Why? Because all those relationships deeply influence how we parent and the way we show up for our children.
it’s when we radically love and accept ourselves, that we can extend that same unconditional love and acceptance to our kids.
Ready for more cooperation and connection your home?
The Connected Kid Toolkit is a beautiful tool to strengthen your relationship with your children and family. My children love engaging in these activities and as their mother, I feel empowered and supported in this important work with these tools. The Connected Toolkit is a gift to yourself, your children, your family, and all the generations that will come after. -Abbey Williams, MSW, LSW
The Connected Kid Toolkit is much more than a set of cards. The cards act as a springboard for what we want our child to know about relationships and navigating our humanity. The Activities provide ways to connect with our children and take action on these core ideas. The Reparenting workbook is a wonderful way for me as a parent to reflect and dig deeper into the reasons why I show up the way I do in my relationship with my children. –Julie Walter, Founder of Family Yields
How we speak to our children today sets the bar for how they expect to be spoken to later in life. Let’s speak love.
If you’d love to bring your family closer, know that I see you.
You want to raise kids who know and believe with every fiber of their beings that they are loved, accepted, worthy, celebrated, and most of all, enough.
Here’s the truth: we cannot pass on to our kids what we are not ready to give to ourselves.
This isn’t just about us anymore.
It’s about what we are passing on to our children.
Are you ready to enjoy a more close-knit family and a deeper connection with your kids?
The Story Behind the Connected Kid Toolkit
Thirteen years ago, when I became a mother, I was determined to raise my kids with an unshakeable and unconditional love that they could count on for a lifetime. A love with no strings attached.
So, in between diaper changes, growing my business, laundry, cleaning, evolving, and more laundry, I spent the next dozen years curating what I consider to be the most validating, affirming, and loving conversation we could have with our kids.
I decided to take this labor of love and turn it into 50 beautiful conversation cards that I know will help parents worldwide (it’s been to 48 countries so far!) cultivate a deep and meaningful relationship with their children.
And I couldn’t just stop at the cards.
That’s why the Connected Kid Toolkit also includes the 100-page digital workbook entitled: Reparenting the Younger You.
By doing this inner work with the younger version of yourself, you’ll be better equipped to integrate these cards into your family life from a place of healing and wholeness within.
Plus, the expertly-designed activities also included in the Toolkit will enable you to reinforce the cards’ messages with fun, bonding activities that will give your kids lasting happy memories of you together!
FAQs
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What is the Suitable Age Range for Toolkit?
The Connected Kid Toolkit is designed to foster a stronger connection between parents and their children. It comprises a “Reparenting The Younger You” Workbook for adults, and the Connected Kid Cards and Associated Activities for children. Here’s a guide to help you determine if it’s right for your family:
Young Children (Below age 3):
- The toolkit is generally recommended for children aged 3-4 and above. While the activities may pose a challenge for children under 3 due to developmental stages, parents have the flexibility to modify these activities to suit younger toddlers.
- Parents can still benefit from the “Reparenting The Younger You” Workbook during this stage and may introduce the cards and activities as the child matures.
Preschool Age (3-4 years):
- This is the ideal starting age for utilizing the toolkit as suggested. At this stage, children are typically able to engage more effectively with the Connected Kid Cards and associated activities, fostering a meaningful parent-child connection.
School Age to Pre-Teens (5-12 years):
- The toolkit continues to be a valuable resource for fostering connection, with the flexibility to adapt activities to suit growing children’s evolving needs and capabilities.
Teens and Pre-teens (13 years and above):
- The toolkit remains relevant and beneficial; however, some activities may need to be adjusted to align with the interests and developmental stage of teenagers.
Your investment in the Connected Kid Toolkit is bound to reap benefits across different stages of your child’s growth, by promoting a nurturing and understanding relationship between you and your child.
How does the Reparenting Workbook compare to the Rebirth Journal?
Good news if you’ve already purchased the “Rebirth Journal!” The Reparenting Workbook and Rebirth Journal are intentionally different in that I created the Reparenting Workbook to align specifically with the Conversation Cards.
There are six overarching categories in the cards: (Unconditional Love, Being Seen and Heard, Mistakes & Apologies, Self-Trust, Emotional Wellness, and Bodily Autonomy) and the Reparenting Workbook is designed to help you take a deeper dive into each of those topics by helping you uncover and overwrite any unhealthy narratives you may have picked up about those in your childhood.
The Reparenting Workbook is also focused even more on inner child work and healing and how that relates to how we parent. It’s about twice as long as the Rebirth Journal and is meant to be used at a pace and frequency that make the most sense for your own healing and growth.
Learn more in the FAQ topic below…
When/how do I use the Reparenting workbook?
The Reparenting the Younger You digital workbook is something you can do whenever you’re ready. You don’t need to do this workbook at the same time as using the cards. While they are meant to complement each other, they can be used independently of each other in whatever way and order feel the best to you.
Note: If you prefer not to print this off, it also comes with a fully editable PDF version so you can enter your answers from your favorite device.
Learn more in the FAQ topic above.
Are the products available to purchase separately?
The Connected Kid Toolkit can only be purchased as a set of three products. Each resource (the cards, the activities, and the workbook) is designed to complement the other in real and impactful ways for both the parent and the child.
what are the shipping costs?
Shipping outside the U.S. is offered at a discounted rate (Canada $5 and outside U.S. and Canada $7).
Please note: Customers are responsible for any local duties, taxes, or courier fees applicable in their geographical area.
Do you ship internationally?
Yes! We are excited to equip as many parents in the world as possible with the Connected Kid Toolkit! We currently ship to 55 different countries supporting door-to-door tracking through USPS first class international shipping. Note: Due to the ongoing conflict in Ukraine, Russia isn’t accepting any packages until further notice.
To confirm if we ship to your country, simply click any Purchase button on this page. You will find a list of Countries to choose from on the next page.
When will I receive my products?
The Connected Kid Toolkit includes three different (physical and digital) products:
- Connected Kid Conversation Cards: depending on where you live in the world, you can expect to receive the Cards in 2-5 business days for US shipments and 1-3 weeks for outside the US. They are mailed out 1-2 business days from the time of purchase.
- Exclusive Online Activities: the online activities that accompany the cards are emailed to you immediately upon purchase.
- Reparenting the Younger Workbook: your digital workbook is emailed to you immediately upon purchase.
What is your return policy?
The digital products in the collection are sent immediately after payment and therefore we’re unable to offer refunds on the Connected Kid Toolkit. If the conversation cards are lost or damaged in the mail, we will happily send you a replacement.
Other Questions?
Have another question that’s not covered above? Feel free to reach out over here and we will get right back to you.
The Connected Kid Toolkit has been thoughtfully designed, evaluated (and recommended!) by therapists, and tested by thousands of parents to help you achieve those exact things.
Are you ready to give yourself and your family the opportunity to enjoy your time together (and your children’s childhood) more?
ABOUT SHELLY
Shelly Robinson is the founder of Raising Yourself and a certified conscious parent coach for moms and dads who want to break cycles and raise themselves alongside their children.
Her passion is to empower and educate parents on how to reparent themselves, disrupt generational patterns, and take radically good care of their needs.
LET’S GET CONNECTED!
